some people really need to fall to learn their lessons

I'd been seeing loads of youths...studying for the sake of their parents' sake, not for a better future, especially our indian community. relationships have become a common site. frenship that has even lead to formation of secret societies are also obvious. why?? hav youths really become ignorant about education, since it has become such an easy and simplified form to digest to earn a diploma or degree, or is it just the youthful mind??

in my life of education, i've been very weak, from primary school till i got my o levels, my mother pushed me all the way, under her guidance i studied ery hard, sometimes i did let her down with failure, but still i got average results and survived thruout in express stream. but ever since i had started my diploma course, complacency had become part of me, taking everything easy failing test wasn't a big issue,but repeating modules were.leaving class to slack with frens, go out with my girl, all this had pulled me down. some of my frens, eve indians would as me, why can't you jus juggle your time after school or even weekends and put your full force during studying time??? well nw i understand, i hadn't been putting my concentration on my educaion cos there wasn't a strong will power in what i was doing. scared to make the nex move, afraid of who might leave me nex, especially my girl...but as time passed, i understood, when i stay strong, thats wen i will not be afraid who's here and who's not, thats wen i can successed, i knw there are a hand full of people right behind to suport me when i ain't strong, but if i keep myself strong, thats when they wil also think that i'm worthy to support them. i left my ex long time back, y? she had been pulling me down, she did not give me the strength to successed, she made me feel unsecure . but when i decided that i shud get over her n move towards my goal, i seriously worked, though, i did get another love, my bestie, a dream come true, y? true love would come from your family and a true fren, and she gave me that security, she gave me the comfort a gd fren would whole-heartedly give, she gave the strength a wife would give her husband, yet she herself had been also doing the same as wat i did during my skool times, obviously everyone would, but, even after i say about what i have gone thru, i expect her, well, everyone to learn a lesson from it....it may be a small thing, but it sure helps alot...

a few instances, she had gone out to meet her frens, i'm not saying its wrong , but, when you can spend it wisely on your exam prep or jus simple revision, y go out??? especially during the pre-exam period??? i did, and i suffered, much worst results...i dun expect anyone else to become like me...

medicine may taste bitter, but the outcome is always sweet,
working hard like ants thruout summer, auttum and spring will build the strongest shelter during winter..
this is wat i have learn wen i fell, dun fall, learn from the mistakes of others..
everything here is for good, dun take it wrongly,
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